I'm someone who has spent many years working alongside people in unconventional, often misunderstood spaces.

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For over a decade , I worked within the adult industry, an experience that shaped my understanding of power, intimacy, boundaries, and the realities of carrying parts of yourself that aren't always easy to talk about.

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It also gave me a deep appreciation for how isolating and lonely that world can feel, both for those who work within it and for those who engage with it in different ways.

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My Approach

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My background means that I'm not easily shocked by taboo, desire, contradiction, or complexity.

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I understand how layered these experiences can be, and how difficult it can be to find support  that doesn't judge, pathologise, or try to steer you in a particular direction.

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This work isn't about rescuing, directing, or curing.

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It's about being present with people when parts of their lives feel hard to hold on their own.

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Training & Values

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My formal training is a foundation degree in counselling and psychotherapy, with person-centred theory at its core. Alongside this, I have in-person experience supporting people with a range of mental health challenges.

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This approach continues to guide my work because I believe deeply in peoples capacity to understand themselves when given the right conditions.

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I don't seek to direct, advise, or take control.

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Instead, I support self-governance, which is particularly important when working with people who may already be used to giving their power away.

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I've chosen to offer this work as coaching rather than counselling so that I can hold a supportive, ethical space while also, when appropriate, name considerations around safety, consent, and boundaries.

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This isn't about authority or expertise, but about care, and about recognising when gentle information can support someone's autonomy rather than undermine it.

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What I Believe

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At the heart of my work is a simple belief:

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Often being heard and accepted without judgment is enough for people to reconnect with their own sense of agency and choice.

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Being accepted and heard can be enough.

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When shame fades and understanding grows, people often find their own way forward.

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Not because they've been told what to do, but because they finally feel steady enough to listen to themselves.

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